counterintuitive
I'm all for being sensible about shopping, but I admit, sometimes I buy things that don't make sense. Here's a story about one of them.
I'd always wanted a Mulberry Bayswater ever since I saw one - I like the classic but unfussy shape. Against the backdrop of crazy It Bags taking over the world, it was unpretentious, but still luxurious.
A few years ago, my mum and I decided to buy one for my older sister, in classic tan leather. I thought perhaps it was high time I invested in one, and perhaps I could buy one in something classic too.
Instead, in the boutique, my gaze lit upon one in mirrored bronze leather, all polished and gleaming, like an artifact rescued from some dusty ruin.. I'm not one for glitz and shine, and yet I couldn't take my eyes off it.
The rational, investment-minded person would have bought one in a classic neutral colour - which is precisely what we bought for my sister - but after thinking it over a day or two, I bought the bronze.
There have been times when I have thought - why didn't I buy something in tan leather? It would have been so me, so right, so versatile, so perfect with everything I have.
But sometimes you want things that go against the grain of sensible, and while I never thought I would spend a significant sum of money on insensible things, there I was, with what is easily the shiniest bag on the street.
I've stopped using over the past 3, 4 months, mainly because work is more casual these days, and also because it's not the best option for days where I go for yoga before I head to work. But I missed it today and decided I needed to bring it out again.
It looks quite awful in this picture - it is such a bitch to photograph - and the actual colour is as seen in the first picture; darker and not quite so orange. You'll simply have to trust me when I say that in spite of how it seems to go against my penchant for low-key, simple things, it actually feels perfectly becoming and natural when I use it. Some things can't be explained.
Comments
Quinn: I know when I can't bring myself to put something down, or take it off, it means it's really quite struck a cord with me. Digressing a bit, I think that's what makes shopping online difficult for me - I find it hard to decide whether I really want something because I haven't physically tried it on...
I love that you have a sister who you can borrow from. I always cave for tan accessories.
Side Note: I like the bag with your more causal, dressed down style. It offers a contrast that doesn't seem contrived.
Love the contrast with the outfit, too!
And yes, love tan! Ironically, I don't have a good bag in that colour, but I;m working on it :)
miss sophie: I like that term "wildcard pieces", it's so apt. I really love oak/tan accessories (not clothes though) because I find them so versatile, and I like the warmth of the colour, since I don't suit black. I'm sure you'll love watching your Bayswater age!
S: Thank you! It does surprise people when I carry this, since I'm normally the most casual of the lot.
Austere: Thanks! Agree, I feel sad whenever I regret some buys, and it makes me more appreciative of the ones that I love even more with time.
Ammu: Thanks! I don't think beautiful bags are hard to find these days, with so many brands trying to grab the attention of the customer. The trick is not bankrupting myself buying too many...
son: I first saw the gold version of this on The Sartorialist and thought it was the coolest thing, so it was a bit of a dream come to true to actually buy this. The nice thing about this metallic finishing is that water runs right off it, with no effect, so I never stress when it starts to drizzle...
nanashi: thank you!
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I think the fact that you took time to think about it was a great approach.