en voyage
"Style begins with the people passing through one’s life, the harbingers we push against and the stylemakers we want to clone. Some are famous, some not. Style grows from admiration, from longing, from discrimination—and, yes, from love. It’s all the places you’ve been to and the people and the moments you’ve known: the parts you’ve adopted, to keep forever, and transformed. We wear our history in our hearts and on our backs." - Carol Edgarian for W magazine
This beautifully-written discourse on personal style in the April issue of W says so much of what I struggle to articulate in words - go here to read.
I've always been particular about things - clothes, food, etc - but I wouldn't say I had a strong sense of style. My sense of how I want to look is derived from living - from meeting people, doing things, travelling, reading, watching movies. I like to think that when I make decision about how I like my white T-shirts, it comes from all of these things and an awareness of what fits me best.
To anyone else it's a white T-shirt, but in my head it's a complicated tangle of influences and preferences that even I couldn't properly unravel. When I hit upon the right thing, I wear it with confidence and conviction and it shows as I go about my business. You feel like you can take over the world.
I love women who dress with conviction. This is different from women who dress with a sense of adventure, women who dress for visual impact. The latter group will look beautiful and they're inspiring in a different way. The former however, inspires me to want to know their stories and what they do.
Picture from sessun via materialiste
Comments
oh and there is no such thing as 'just' a white tshirt ;)
Love the article and the picture!
There are already so many badly dressed people around, so let's be a bit more particular and outspoken.
I have a personal style and proud of it.
Kate: Glad you liked it, I was truly happy to stumble across it while browsing at a bookstore...pity the rest of the mag didn't win me over.
K: Agree with you about style, and wish more people thought of that before they got dressed! That Sessun picture is pretty much how I like to dress on weekends - shorts are my weekend staple.
Ammu: Agree, it's what keeps me from falling for trinklets for momentary pleasure.
Vegalyn: I used to feel a little embarrassed about being so particular about clothes, but the more I think about it, the more I realised it doesn't make sense to think that. I'm so tired of people equating caring about clothes with superficiality that I've given up arguing otherwise..
Singapore uses in English as the language of instruction in schools, and it's also the language used for work and business, even though each ethnic group has its own mother tongue (eg I'm Chinese), which we take as our second language in schools. But some people are more fluent in their mother tongues than in English. I'm more comfortable in English even though I actually grew up speaking Mandarin, but the language scene in Singapore is pretty diverse.
I think your English is actually really good if it's not your first language!
Pret a Porter P: Agreed. I'm definitely comfortable with whatever I am, and I think that's a good place to be, however imperfect.
S: That's an interesting thing about the French, I never knew that!
If Jane: Glad you liked the article!
featherfactor: Agreed! The article was too good not to share.
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Since reading it when you first posted it it has just stuck with me, and I keep thinking it over.
Carol Edgarin's quote is perfect, and like you say sums up so much of what I too think about personal style but somehow struggle so much to put into words. I just love it!
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Angie: No problem. W has its nice bits, even though I still find the editorials a bit flat.
Olivia: It's such a great read isn;t it; it can be read a few times without getting stale.
Lindsay: W really surprised me with this one!
miss sophie: Agreed. When I come across people like that, I don't really engage in the debate anymore though; it's not because I think it's futile but because I think my point is made just from my outfit alone and I have better things to do, if that makes any sense.
0000: No prob, glad you liked it!