let's try this again
I made a list of what I wanted in September:
a) ballet flats in a neutral shade
b) a navy double-breasted cardigan
c) the Sofia Coppola SC bag
What I bought subsequently:
a) a pair of two-toned flats in beige and black (check!)
b) navy tie-neck blouse (where did that come from?)
c) white silk dress (again, where??)
d) a leather clutch (it just came out of nowhere)
e) a wallet (...)
I'm terrible at keeping to lists, clearly. I stopped looking for the cardigan when I decided I had too many - this is not to say if the perfect navy DB one appeared I wouldn't snap it up. I fell out of love with the SC bag when I went to the shop and felt nothing special when I carried it around. And I didn't need to want another large-ish bag.
I ended up with four things I didn't predict I would want, but I don't regret them. I think at some point my shopping became less dictated by needs (already met) and I find it hard to define what are the "extras" (coined by Pret a Porter P). Who's to define what a dream item is?
Still, I'm going to keep trying to see if I can do better.
The list for 2011 thus far:
- A watch (I already have some idea of what I want)
- A small-ish day bag also that works for night (no idea what I want)
And what's a good number for the things I don't know I'm going to want? I think if I discounted the things I bought last year I could have left behind, there were 10-12 things I bought that I truly felt were good buys I don't regret - amongst them essentials like shoes, a swimsuit, and trousers I actually needed.
10 or less would perhaps be a realistic number to aim for. I'm counting my new leopard shoes and my silk shirt bought in late-December as part of the tally, so that leaves me with eight items for the rest of the year. That's practically something new every month (but I'm not going to push myself to fill any quotas), and I think it's pretty generous.
And what's a good number for the things I don't know I'm going to want? I think if I discounted the things I bought last year I could have left behind, there were 10-12 things I bought that I truly felt were good buys I don't regret - amongst them essentials like shoes, a swimsuit, and trousers I actually needed.
10 or less would perhaps be a realistic number to aim for. I'm counting my new leopard shoes and my silk shirt bought in late-December as part of the tally, so that leaves me with eight items for the rest of the year. That's practically something new every month (but I'm not going to push myself to fill any quotas), and I think it's pretty generous.
I'll probably end up with more shoes - I get around on public transport and walking and wear them out fast. If a pair of shoes (usually ballet flats) that gets frequent wear (at least twice a week) holds up for two years, I'm impressed.
Maybe I'll find that perfect dress. The dress section of my wardrobe is, with a few exceptions, the most unsatisfactory section of all - full of things I have outgrown, filler stuff that needs replacing, and argh, mistakes. Not having a good sense of what I own and what kind of dresses I'd like to have makes it easy to make mistakes.
I've spent the past week weeding out bits and pieces and getting a better idea of what the gaps are: something well-cut for day, made of something a little more structured than the more casual jersey, knit and linen staples I currently own (I think this means I'm leaning towards the A.P.C...). Also, no more dinner-ish, evening things - I have enough beautiful things that don't get enough wear.
Everything else? I'll let nature take its course.
I've spent the past week weeding out bits and pieces and getting a better idea of what the gaps are: something well-cut for day, made of something a little more structured than the more casual jersey, knit and linen staples I currently own (I think this means I'm leaning towards the A.P.C...). Also, no more dinner-ish, evening things - I have enough beautiful things that don't get enough wear.
Everything else? I'll let nature take its course.
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But up till now, the price tag scared me off. It's not that I can't save money for it, but I'm just getting a new kitchen for 2.5 times the price of the SC. It's just too much to be spent on a bag.
http://www.svpply.com/misssophie
anyway, i agree with Pret a Porter that oftentimes your favorite purchases are the impulse purchases. as for the SC bag, i really love the large one and the new PM smaller size. i've been obsessed with them...:P
The SC bag...I thought of saving up for it and tried it in the shop and realised I really wasn;t keen on buying another large-ish day bag, and even the smaller PM version was larger than I expected. And it felt awkward when I carried it - it didnt hang comfortably on me. I think it's one of those bags you need to break in by squishing it a bit and carrying heavy - which I obviously didnt try in front of the salesperson, haha. But I have to say, the leather is one of the most amazing I've ever felt.
Pret a Porter P: I tried that! Too thick for the weather here and didn't fall very nicely. Thanks for spotting it though :)
I agree about extraneous items - they're the reason for making lists in the first place. I get so annoyed with money wasted on those.
The shirt hasn't arrived yet, it's due next week. Fingers crossed!
And glad you liked the Detroit link.
Vegalyn: I did once consider saving for it, but you're right in that it's just too expensive!
misssophie: I haven't heard of svpply but I'm definitely going to check that out, sounds fun!
onlycoolcats: I like it when my priorities are as clear a that. I hope you find it.